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		<title>By: Gaynor Alder</title>
		<link>http://gaynoralder.com/2010/03/06/because-sometimes-im-too-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-581</link>
		<dc:creator>Gaynor Alder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 12:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love your work Jo! I agree with you that being nice does seem to disempower women from standing up for themselves because they are too afraid of not being nice - and yes, it doesn&#039;t mean you become a bitch, there are just more empowered words than nice. Thanks for your lovely compliments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love your work Jo! I agree with you that being nice does seem to disempower women from standing up for themselves because they are too afraid of not being nice &#8211; and yes, it doesn&#8217;t mean you become a bitch, there are just more empowered words than nice. Thanks for your lovely compliments.</p>
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		<title>By: Gaynor Alder</title>
		<link>http://gaynoralder.com/2010/03/06/because-sometimes-im-too-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-554</link>
		<dc:creator>Gaynor Alder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 06:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT @livingsavvy: why nice girls don&#039;t win by @themodernwoman http://bit.ly/b2AuLT http://bit.ly/cKVphy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT @livingsavvy: why nice girls don&#39;t win by @themodernwoman <a href="http://bit.ly/b2AuLT" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/b2AuLT</a> <a href="http://bit.ly/cKVphy" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/cKVphy</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jo Bassett</title>
		<link>http://gaynoralder.com/2010/03/06/because-sometimes-im-too-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-553</link>
		<dc:creator>Jo Bassett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 02:36:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">why nice girls don&#39;t win by @themodernwoman <a href="http://bit.ly/b2AuLT" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/b2AuLT</a> <a href="http://bit.ly/cKVphy" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/cKVphy</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: living savvy</title>
		<link>http://gaynoralder.com/2010/03/06/because-sometimes-im-too-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-552</link>
		<dc:creator>living savvy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 02:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I avoid using the word nice on any occasion - it is bland and lacks imagination.  
From a women’s perspective I believe it is used to prevent or make it more difficult women to be assertive, direct and clear expressing their wants and needs.  I have a 6 year old daughter and I am doing my best to instil in her the values of kindness, consideration,  understanding and will directed compassion….But never niceness!  
If you are saying no to being “nice” …what qualities are you saying yes to?  I read caring, considerate and self respecting wonderful qualities that will spill over into your friendships and make them oh so satisfying.  Enjoy them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I avoid using the word nice on any occasion &#8211; it is bland and lacks imagination.<br />
From a women’s perspective I believe it is used to prevent or make it more difficult women to be assertive, direct and clear expressing their wants and needs.  I have a 6 year old daughter and I am doing my best to instil in her the values of kindness, consideration,  understanding and will directed compassion….But never niceness!<br />
If you are saying no to being “nice” …what qualities are you saying yes to?  I read caring, considerate and self respecting wonderful qualities that will spill over into your friendships and make them oh so satisfying.  Enjoy them.</p>
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		<title>By: Rochelle Elliot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rochelle Elliot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 19:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT @themodernwoman: BECAUSE SOMETIMES I’M TOO NICE http://bit.ly/cVjWyv&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: Gaynor Alder</title>
		<link>http://gaynoralder.com/2010/03/06/because-sometimes-im-too-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-550</link>
		<dc:creator>Gaynor Alder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 00:41:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Zatil Aqmar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zatil Aqmar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 16:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Gaynor Alder</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gaynor Alder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 16:33:45 +0000</pubDate>
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