ONLINE DATING & ANONYMOUS SEX. ALL FUN & GAMES?

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Lori Dwyer responds to Jesse Fink’s article about a divorced male experimenting with online dating. It’s an eye–opening, fascinating read that on the surface makes the author appear a sexist chauvinist who quite frankly needs to keep his dick in his pants. But upon closer inspection, is he really just telling the truth?

DOES PORN BOTHER YOU?

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Porn Bridget is something that prudish, self-conscious, little-girl Bridget feels quite uncomfortable about and would prefer to sweep it under the rug pretending that that type of thing just did not exist or go on…. To some of you that may seem strange….”Get over it and grow up!” Well, I’d like to explore that idea [...]

GUEST POST: CAN YOU HAVE SEX LIKE A MAN?

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When it comes down to it…. could you have sex like a bloke? Say thanks, then walk away, as if it were a game of poker you happened to win, with no more emotional investment than that? At what point does promiscuity become destructive? And who decides when it’s empowering?

GUEST POST: SINGLE AND SCANDALOUS IN A SMALL TOWN

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People in the small outback town Penny Langfield has just moved to will gossip about a half-sucked orange. Imagine what they say about sharing a swag with a stranger. Her post is about being yourself, charming the locals and doing what you like, regardless of the faceless hordes.

LEARNING HOW TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN

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For the past few years I’ve been a coquettish minx of the night, kicking men out of my bed with my Dolce and Gabanna heels and avoiding commitment like someone had just asked me to chew off my own toe nails.

REWIND: FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS – CAN YOU REALLY PULL OFF CASUAL SEX?

I have the act of casual sex down to an art form. I can do the mercy shag with a friend, have one night stands and even repeat sex with the same person, without getting emotionally attached. How do I do it?

REWIND: ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP SLUT?

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In essence, taking time out between relationships will help you to grow as a person, attract better people and make better choices in relationships. So stop hopping from one bad man to the next, because the only baggage you want to be carrying is Louis Vuitton.

POLL: IS IT A DEAL BREAKER IF HE WON’T GO “DOWN TOWN”?

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Yes, we here at The Modern Woman’s Survival Guide want to know how important it is for a guy to go down town on, what shall we say, ahem, your lady bits.

BYRON BAY: THE UNCUT VERSION

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I have casual sex down to a fine art. The name of the game is to avoid the over production of oxytocin, a chemical produced when two people have sex which makes them feel bonded to each other in the name of procreation of the human species. Not wanting to get involved in a menage a trois with genetics, I rely on minimal affection coupled with …

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS – CAN YOU REALLY PULL OFF CASUAL SEX?

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The laws of nature dictate that when one sleeps with a member of the opposite sex long enough, they will get emotionally attached. This ladies, is what makes the convenience of having a regular “FB” (and no, I’m not talking about Facebook) virtually impossible.

IT’S A JUNGLE OUT THERE

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In my 33rd year, I’ve not only come to appreciate the male anatomy more, I realise that I am in fact a bit of a snob. They come in all different shapes and sizes, but quite frankly, most of them are well, let’s face it, ugly. In particular the uncircumcised ones I have encountered in [...]